How I Do It: ‘I run a sex toy company with my wife – here’s our week in sex’

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‘I use masturbation as a type of self-motivation, and it really works’ (Picture: Myles Goode)

For this week’s How I Do It, our sequence in which a new individual every week offers us a seven-day sneak peek into their sex life, we hear from Adam.

Adam is 37, straight and married to Monika, with whom he shares kids and a sex toy company known as Godemiche.

He describes his private relationship with sex as ‘an necessary a part of who I am’.

Adam doesn’t like issues in the bed room to get too ‘predictable’, including: ‘the extra predictable sex turns into the much less gratifying it’s’.

As such, he likes to combine issues up by incorporating stuff like candles, baths, attractive video games, and watching porn with his wife. The couple are additionally no strangers to a swingers social gathering.

However, through the top of the pandemic, Adam says its affect on his sex life was ‘horrible’, citing the pressure of not simply dwelling and dealing with his wife, but additionally homeschooling the children.

Now that each one that’s (hopefully) in their rearview, right here’s how the couple have been getting on…


I assist get the children away from bed and prepared for college. I make them stroll to high school as a result of it annoys them and I must get my steps in.

If my wife and I are feeling it, the occasional 9am frolic occurs – a quickie earlier than work after which out the door to drop Monika off earlier than coming again to do business from home.

After planning out what must be carried out through the week, I’ll prioritise what crucial duties are. To be sure that I get the important issues carried out, I reward myself. That reward typically comes in the type of a wank.

Yes, I use masturbation as a type of self-motivation, and it really works! 

I go to the gymnasium round 2:30pm, as now we have salsa dancing on Monday nights.

After salsa, if we’re feeling a little frisky we get it on, having that tough quiet sex the place you possibly can’t be too loud since you may wake the children up. 

Tonight we simply have bare cuddles earlier than going to sleep at round 11:30pm.


Rinse and repeat: up at 7am, barter with children earlier than faculty simply to get them out the door, after which again residence for 9ish.

No sex right now – received work to do, however we do have these rewards to sit up for.

I’ll typically take a attractive snap and ship it to Monika. You know, one thing to distract her and make her smile. We have a couple of recent handcrafted masturbators to check out additionally, so they arrive out throughout ‘reward’ time.

After getting children from faculty and making dinner, I’ll sit down on the PC and get some extra work carried out whereas Monika kinds the children out.

I hit the gymnasium at 7:30pm, get residence and have a cocktail in my hand by 10pm.

I surf some kinky web sites in search of photos, one thing we will reproduce for our personal work or one thing I can reproduce to ship to Monika.

Tonight, it’s bare cuddles once more – we find time for that intimacy each night time earlier than we fall asleep between 11:30pm and 1am.

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‘We discuss to folks about sex and sex toys till 5pm, after which we pack away and choose up the children.’


Monika is getting the children prepared right now so I’m on the PC working from about 8am to 9:30 earlier than taking Monika to the workplace.

Today, I’m driving down to gather new moulds and to debate/evaluate new designs and prototypes. All of the sex toys we make are issues we want to use ourselves, so we use each design a number of occasions earlier than it’s ever launched to the general public.

Today’s new mould is a new Grind Ring texture and vibrating plate. Monika LOVES vibrations, so I’m very excited to present this one a go in the approaching days, however now we have to make them in silicone earlier than we use them.

In the night, I exit for a drink with a mate, so I’m again a little later tonight.

Monika’s half asleep, so it’s simply bare cuddles once more tonight earlier than going to sleep myself.


Managed to get the children up and out the door at 8:30am right now with smiles. Winning.

Then I’m again on to these duties that have to be accomplished and having fun with these rewards that come with finishing them. While having a ‘reward’ wank right now I had an thought about texture and so made a notice on my cellphone about describing the concept later.

I have concepts on a regular basis from the strangest of issues. I as soon as was ingesting from a bottle of pop and the bottle get my thoughts racing about textures and the way it may very well be used in a sex toy.

In the afternoon, I get the children, make dinner, and go to the gymnasium for 7:30pm.

Then now we have Nextflix and chill night time with French Gimlet cocktails earlier than heading to mattress for much more cuddles than common to make up for final night time.


Out the door at 8:45am in the automotive right now so the children are pleased, then it’s off to the workplace.

On Fridays I need to make extra moulds, clear up and do a couple of different issues earlier than setting as much as right now’s reside chat on Instagram.

We’re speaking in regards to the Grind Ring right now and giving folks a tremendous ‘reside chat solely’ provide which ends in two days’ time. I all the time take pleasure in telling folks about how we use sex toys, with our little suggestions and strategies to get essentially the most of a toy or what pitfalls to keep away from.

Sharing our sexual experiences has all the time been key to why we do what we do.

On Fridays, we attempt to depart early, so we will have sex earlier than the children get residence from faculty, however now we have a busy weekend, so we’re working by means of to 2:30pm earlier than getting the children from faculty.

At 5pm, we drop the children off with a member of the family as now we have a busy weekend the place we will’t take them with us.      

We’re residence and in mattress by 11pm, the place we simply cuddle once more.


I’m up early for a skate round 9am whereas Monika is on the gymnasium. Skating’s a new factor for me – a strategy to get the cardio in with out sitting on a boring bike on the gymnasium.

We have a fetish market to attend Sunday in Birmingham so need to go to the workplace and pack all of the inventory wanted.

We have containers and containers of dildos, grind rings, butt plugs, masturbators and even strap on harnesses and sex furnishings all in the again and nobody is aware of as we drive previous them.

This Saturday is a bit uncommon for us as now we have a resort booked and a photographer to return and take footage of us having sex. Sounded like a nice thought on the time however I’m a bit apprehensive I received’t keep onerous, so I received some standby Viagra simply in case.

We get to the resort at 4PM, and have a espresso and a chat with the photographer earlier than making our strategy to the room to shoot. We get some scorching boudoir photos of Monika and a couple of us collectively earlier than transferring in to the X-rated stuff.

Having sex in entrance of somebody with a digicam may not be everybody’s cup of tea, nevertheless it seems we like it and I didn’t want the viagra – good job too, as I realise I unintentionally left them at residence.

After 3 hours of images, we get dolled up and head out to a Swingers Club in the hopes of discovering some extra enjoyable – and we did. We had sex with one another however with no different couple this time. 

We head again to the resort round 1:30am to have extra sex after which we each collapse with exhaustion at round 3am. 


We’re up early for breakfast right now at 6am, questioning yesterday’s selections however then remembering how a lot enjoyable it was.

We’re in Birmingham centre for 8:30am, unpacking the merchandise and establishing for this week’s Birmingham’s Bizarre Bazaar.

We discuss to folks about sex and sex toys till 5pm, after which we pack away and choose up the children. 

When we get residence, we put the children to mattress and get some much-needed sleep, however not earlier than having these all-important bare cuddles, fortunately exhausted after a tremendous weekend.

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