We’re best friends who started our own sex therapy business

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From mind-blowing orgasms to their favourite sex toys, no topic is off-limits for long-term friends Holly Robinson and Rachel Anderson.

Pals since their teenagers, they’ve raunchy conversations each day and share each element of their love life.

Now they’ve turned their talks right into a sex therapy business — serving to ladies who wrestle to succeed in orgasm and {couples} who have misplaced their mojo.

Holly, 33, who lives with accomplice Oliver Ward, 37, a paratrooper, and their daughter Breya, 7, in Colchester, Essex, says: “I speak to Rachel about sex every single day and we’re nearer than sisters. We have by no means had any boundaries round what we share.

“I’ve been recognized to message her saying, ‘I’ve simply tried this new erotic therapeutic massage and had a random orgasm.’

“Or Rachel will message me saying she has simply found a brand new pleasurable tantric apply and I have to strive it.

“We are having the best sex of our lives and it’s turn into our mission to assist different ladies expertise pleasure much better than they ever imagined.

“Women shouldn’t really feel ashamed or embarrassed on the subject of speaking about sex. Openly sharing experiences with a buddy provides the opposite one permission to do the identical.”

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Holly Robinson and Rachel Anderson at all times spoke candidly about sex with one another.
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Rachel, 32, who is in a relationship with Dean Bailey, 37, who is ex-military, says: “When it got here to boys and sex, nothing was secret from Holly.

“When I misplaced my virginity at 15, it was Holly I confided in and I shared all the small print.” Holly agrees: “In our youthful years we have been intrigued by all the things to do with sex.

“We talked brazenly about the kind of porn we each appreciated to look at and what toys we loved. We even in contrast notes about how we reached orgasm by means of self-pleasure.

“There was plenty of peer stress. Girls have been having sex as a result of they thought it was what they need to be doing, despite the fact that they weren’t actually into it.

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Holly Robinson and Rachel Anderson say they assist {couples} reignite their love life.
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“At college, you have been both labeled frigid or promiscuous, and we talked about how flawed that was.

“As we obtained older we grew to become annoyed by the myths surrounding sex — like the misperception that each one ladies can orgasm by means of penetration alone which isn’t true. As best friends we had one rule — we might by no means have sex with the identical man.”

The friends selected related profession paths, with Holly qualifying as a life coach and Rachel as a counselor. But two years in the past they discovered their true calling.

Rachel says: “Clients got here to me with all kinds of points however intimacy got here up in virtually each dialog. They’d say issues like, ‘I can’t speak to my accomplice’, or, ‘I can’t keep in mind the final time we had sex’.”

And Holly’s shoppers have been related. “Women would virtually chortle off their sex lives,” she explains. “They’d say they wanted to have sex quickly as a result of it had been a month for the reason that final time or issues like, ‘We’ve been collectively for 10 years, after all, we aren’t intimate anymore.’

“When I talked to Rachel we realized this was a complete space that we needs to be concentrating on.”

After re-training in sex therapy, the ladies launched their joint business, The Hormone Hub, and started seeing shoppers in Holly’s lounge.

They now do 20 one-to-one periods every week, and three to 4 workshops, together with tantra periods, in a rented corridor. Holly says: “We see ladies who need to orgasm but it surely isn’t taking place and {couples} who have zero sexual chemistry and need assistance getting the spark again.”

‘ZERO SEXUAL CHEMISTRY’

Like many new mums, Holly went by means of an intimacy blip when Breya was born, however sex is now higher than ever.

She says: “When I grew to become a mum my physique felt completely different and having sex felt daunting. I talked to Rachel and he or she reassured me that my sex life would get again on monitor, and it did.

“I used to suppose I might solely have one kind of orgasm however as a result of I’ve realized a lot by means of our work, I’ve mastered all kinds. Oliver is aware of what turns me on and I’m at all times altering issues within the bed room.”

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Holly Robinson and Rachel Anderson mentioned they have been annoyed by myths and misconceptions about sex.
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Holly can be open about sex together with her daughter.

“We started speaking to Breya about sex when she was 5,” she says.

“She is aware of sex isn’t nearly having infants. I’ve instructed her that an orgasm is sort of a hearth in her stomach. There needs to be no disgrace round discussing the topic.

This story initially appeared on The Sun and has been reproduced right here with permission.

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